Fuck e-dating...

[Manic Velocity]

I feel like everything I say is being challenged. Like, if I complain about my neck hurting, he asks me if I'm saying his bed is uncomfortable.

Drop him like a hot rock.  I hate to say it like that, but nobody should have to put up with that shit.  I was in a relationship for about 8 months, and had to deal with that kind of stuff for 6 of them.

Everything I said would be spun around and twisted into a negative comment about her.  I felt like I had to watch every single word I said, and make sure it was absolutely fool-proof before it came out of my mouth.  "Walking on eggshells" I believe is the term.

Not worth it at all.  

[Anonymous]

hmmm...we'll see

[Anonymous]

ya t i know what you're saying...it gets old real fast.
countess...it just sounds like he's a young annoying guy, and if your parents don't like him, then you have a great excuse to get rid of him

ya i'm pretty much walking on eggshells now.  i can't seem to have a problem with anything without him completely freaking out.  so i'm afraid to tell him something cause i'll piss him off.

plus he has this mystery relationship with his ex that the story is always changing.

[Tecknik]

Time to drop your boyfriends. Both Vermillion, and Countess.  Both of your situations seem to be asking for trouble.  In my opinion, anyways.

[Lithium]

I don't have much experience but my thoughts are that women need to drop boyfriends that make them miserable. Sure you can fix a serious problem temporarily; for a week, two weeks, a month, two months; but it usually comes back and so does the miserableness. Save yourselves the long term pain, be the stronger person, drop the attachment, and move on to the next. You'll eventually come to someone who won't cause you the pain.

[Anonymous]

ya i think yous are right.  especially when today he told me to keep my problems to myself.

[Anonymous]

i'm not one to play games, but i've been told that this thing isn't a real relationship, and since i'm not in one i don't have to break up with him.  so, if all the guys out there can put a comment on my myspace that would be greeeeeat  

[Subb]

Can I make a account with a fat balding man? That'll be fun hehehe.... *ahem* Nothing so see here...

[Ash]

Here's my advice...

Look back and all you wrote, you have your answer already just follow through with it.  Life is too short to stay with someone who doesn't make you completely happy.

[Anonymous]

omg manic is awesome.

[Tbone]

I left quite the scandalous comment!

[Manic Velocity]

I left quite the scandalous comment!

HA!

[Lits]

To Vermillion and Countess:

If they really bug you this much you shouldn't invest any emotions into them. Remember, YOU control how you feel and YOU regulate how much control they have over you. It sounds heartless but sometimes you have to look at love like a business deal... 'what good will come of being with this person?' 'what are the negatives of dating him/her?' and then decide if the positives outweigh the negatives.
T: I think you'd do well to think about those things, too.

[Anonymous]

All of your advice sounds excellent. My problem is actually following through with it. I want to give him a chance, I really really do, because I'm a fair person, and I may be wrong. But at the same time, I'm just so..annoyed. His ex is calling him all the time cause he says she's pregnant with either his child or this next guy's child; he gets mad at me for no reason: For example, tonight, KNOWING THAT I HAD PLANS WITH ASHLEY (a close friend of mine and his) he goes and calls me and bitches at me for "standing him up." I never made plans with him or anything and I just didn't want to hear him, so I said, "I will see you when I see you. I'm not your girl yet, if at all."

Plus, ALL OF HIS FRIENDS know about me. I WAS NAKED IN HIS BED (covered very quickly by a blanket) and his friend just walks in and is like, "So, you're Sarah? Nice to meet you. I heard a lot about you." You know how many friends of mine know about him? ONE! AND SHE'S ASHLEY!

The more I write and hear and think about this guy, the more I'm sure I don't want to be with him; the more I'm sure he's not the right guy for me to even consider a friendship with.

However, I may have found the reason why I'm so heavily attracted to him!

I'm taking a psychology, anthropology, and sociology course in high school. It's a very very good course to take, and it's rather interesting. After looking at my notes, I realized why I'm so attracted to this guy.

My father and I don't have a good relationship. As a matter of fact, I can tell you the million reasons I have to hate my father. However, I am always looking for acceptance by him. Because I never get it, I fear that I've found someone else to try to get acceptance from, and I believe that person is Scott (my guy.)

But I'm making assumptions and this is gonna be one long ass post, so I'll stop now

[Tecknik]

I'm not one to play games, but I've been told that this thing isn't a real relationship, and since I'm not in one I don't have to break up with him.  so, if all the guys out there can put a comment on my myspace that would be greeeeeat  

A comment along the lines of "Hey you sexy thang.  What's shaken? When are we going to hang out? "? Sound good?