Fuck e-dating...

[Phienyx]

Women.  This subject is more convoluted than all 3 of the Matrix movies put together.

As far as the "nice guy", "bad boy" thing:  If they are smart, they eventually realize that the "bad boy" has been or will eventually fuck them over.  At this point, they usually end up going out with some nerdy ma ma's boy. (read: the opposite extreme.)

Lucky is the decent man who finds a hot chick.  Treat her well because this doesn't happen often.

[Pirus]

yeah but becareful Tbone the moment you show serious interest in her, then she'll throw you out like a yard dog.  It's weird like that sometimes.  When you show a girl no interest just because you think that she doesn't like you "in that way" she immediately becomes attracted to you.. So, your immediate response is to persue the possibilities of a relationship, and once you do, the attraction seems to leave her as quick as it came. sigh what a sad sad world we live in.  

[Anonymous]

not entirely true!
sometimes guys spew all kinds of crazy shit and act like leeches in the beginning of the relationship, and the minute a girl starts buying into it HE STOPS DOING IT SO NAH

[Phienyx]

you've gotta be able to read through all the "crazy shit", see past the looks and other distractions and see who he really is as a person.  If you think he's full of shit, don't even bother.  

On the other hand, women need to stop playing games too.  There is a reason some men act like dogs.  Women claim they want men to show real interest in them, but magically when they do, guess what?   *POOF*  The men that usually get the attention ARE the one's who act like dogs.  Those are the guys who usually have women chasing after them.

Explain that to me and I will make you the richest person in the world.

[Manic Velocity]

I know the secret:

Date older women.  Seriously.

[Anonymous]

But but...What about me?

[Manic Velocity]

But but...What about me?

You can date older women too, Countess.  

[Anonymous]

OMG NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Eroz]

But but...What about me?

Your restricted to dating guys that were born with 2 days of you.

[Pirus]

countess you can start by giving back my pants!!! you need to stop with the shrine of Pirus on your wall it probably throws the guys off seeing my pants hanging up there LOL

[Anonymous]

You know... you'd probably find it easier to understand your opposite sexes if you stopped generalizing about them and took time to get to know them.

Just my 2c

[Anonymous]

Omg I'm legal in Canada now gentlemen. 16 and up, no three year limit set anymore. YAY! And 2 days older? puhlease. More like 1-8 years older. Yeah....

And Pirus, it's unfortunate, but while lighting a candle, your pants caught on fire, thereby burning down my shrine.

[Anonymous]

^ LOL

didn't someone already say that eventually girls realize they are being treated like shit and get the hell out of the relationship?  so guys acting like that don't win.

and no, i'm not making generalizations, i'm talking about my boyfriend...so maybe it's not so good

[Pirus]

gasp i liked those pants! sigh oh well atleast guys wont be freaked out by it anymore

[Tbone]

Ok, I have found myself in quite the situation.

I live with a girl and asked her out on a date and she said no, right. So I suddenly get a date with another girl. We go on this date and have a great time - get along really well, both hope that things continue. Well, last night the first girl, who originally said no, began to flirt big time and confessed that she was just scared when I first asked her because I'll be leaving in a few weeks. She knows about the date I had, but we end up hooking up. She acknowledges it is her fault for not acting sooner since I asked her out first.

Now I don't know what to do. I went from no girls to two. Both of them are great and are really into me. One girl I've hung out with quite a bit since we live and work together and will be here until I leave. The other girl seems really into me but she is leaving in three weeks for a dance festival and won't be back until I am gone.

My problem is I don't want to call it off with either one of them. There's no way to do it without being a jerk. I find myself now sitting in my room frantically trying to figure this out, as later tonight I'm supposed to hang out with one of them. What do I do?